Category Archives: home life

The Life Cycle of A Sand Castle, in Eleven Pictures

Yesterday, Declan and I built one of our favorite sand castles, which we call the Tidal Pool Dribble Castle Sand Boat. The TPDCSB has many advantages, including immediate tidal pool ocean water interaction, dribbling opportunities, and comfortable seats in a … Continue reading

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We Are Pregnant With Boy Number Three!

Alisa is pregnant. With our third boy. Three boys! Holy moley. Twenty weeks pregnant, due in early October. We are thrilled, we are grateful, and we are more than a little bit daunted. The idea of bring a third baby … Continue reading

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The Health Benefits of Losing Arguments to Your Wife

I read an extraordinary article in this morning’s New York Times Magazine about the correlation between marital happiness and health. Among the findings: a small wound (8 small blisters created by a suction machine) took one day longer to heal … Continue reading

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Beautiful Moment #17: Cloudy with a chance of tickle tornadoes

Spent a chunk of the morning bouncing around on the bed and tickling Declan and Grey. So lovely. Tickling is absolutely fascinating as a phenomenon — one of those human behaviors that is so natural and instinctive that we rarely … Continue reading

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The Soul of The Cocktail; Let It Not Taste Like Reconditioned Tin — A New Year’s Resolution

I have good news for local liquor stores, if not house guests: I intend to take cocktailing seriously in 2010. Not just the consumption of cocktails, which I have taken seriously for some years now, but the creation of cocktails. … Continue reading

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Water Birth

Grey, in his 22-month-old wisdom, has decided that the bath is the perfect place to go number two. He did it a few days ago when Alisa was bathing him, and this morning he did it yet again, this time … Continue reading

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The Original Workout

“Let’s jump on the bed” was, as a child, an un-turn-down-able invitation. My brother and I LOVED jumping on beds — as we got older our favorite version was slaloming back and forth between two twin beds in my grandmother’s … Continue reading

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The Allure of Weapons Delivery Systems that Inflict Pain on Bad Guys

April 7, 2009 Dear Declan – On Sunday i took you to the Intrepid aircraft carrier off the west side highway in the 30s, a floating museum showcasing fighter jets, supersonic surveillance aircraft, a cruise missile bearing submarine, and other … Continue reading

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The Dawn of the Fake Smile

Shortly after Declan turned one, I set up a gmail account for him and began sending him emails, documenting little moments in his life. I recommend this approach — it’s a quick and easy way to store memories, given the … Continue reading

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Shoes

Dear Declan – Yesterday, sitting on my lap as I took off my shoes after a long day of work, you said to me, “Daddy, sometimes during the day I miss you, and then I look at your shoes and … Continue reading

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